I waited too long

[Father Nurgle]

you should slay him. doesn't have to be honorable. the world could use less womanizers and i am pretty sure if you do slay said womanizer and ate his heart for courage then perhaps this female will realize you are the alpha male in the situation and will decide to be with you.
If you wanna be old fashion. like me

but when it comes down to scrutinizing something like getting to know her for a year or 2. sounds like my situation. been friends with a girl for 1 1/2 years and we were just good friends when one night something clicked and bam i began to like her. only a few days later i take advantage of the conversation and get to know she likes me and bang! there it is, happy go lucky FATHER NURGLE, gets a wonderful lady he has been close to for a bit over a year.

hopefully you will have everything go into your favor. (IE-womanizer dies, and you get the girl) but best of luck! go get em tiger

[doberman]

If she really was showing signs of interest, and you did nothing about it, she probably thinks you're not interested in her, in that way.

If this guy is a womaniser, do you think she knew that before going out with him?

If so she may well be doing this to see what you do.

From my experience woman do crazy stuff when it comes to love/relationships/romance, from a blokes point of view anyway. Never think you know what they are going to do. Logic does not come into the equation. (I'm not saying that this is not the case for every woman, just the majority of the women (Irish and English) I have been involved with in the past). I've been married over 8 years now, so I've only one crazy person to deal with now.

It's a difficult situation you're in, you have to be carefull not to come across as freak/stalker, and creep her put, which can be easy to do when you feel the way you do.

Straight talking has mostly worked for me.

Best of luck, and I hope it works out for you.

[Loplod]

Oct 29, 2010 18:43:57 GMT ninjadude said:

Thanks for the advice guys (and gal). I kid about the knockout plan .... Unless he breaks her heart.

Never take advise about girls, From girls.

They don't know what they want, They will tell you the wrong things. they THINK they are helping you, But they are not.

[Aux]

Oct 29, 2010 5:11:15 GMT Loplod said:

So much beta..

Walk up the to the guy
Knock him out
Tell the girl how you feel
? ? ?
Profit!

/thread

[Cedonuli]

Oct 30, 2010 23:56:53 GMT Loplod said:

Oct 29, 2010 18:43:57 GMT ninjadude said:

Thanks for the advice guys (and gal). I kid about the knockout plan .... Unless he breaks her heart.

Never take advise about girls, From girls.

They don't know what they want, They will tell you the wrong things. they THINK they are helping you, But they are not.

I would say this is fairly good advise

I only ask women for advise if I'm not sure why my girlfriend maybe mad at me for doing/not doing something. i will also agree with the other comment about them being crazy which is why I've given up on looking for "normal" girls because I'm convinced they don't exist (or if they did highschool or some other guy must have really messed them before I met them) . I knew one who's now ex boyfriend hit her with a car out of anger and she was still convinced he loved her and she would chase off others who would approach him.

[ninjadude]

Guys... guys. I don't care whether a guy or girl gives me advice as long as it's good advice. Cedonuli, that girl has some propblems, but most don't.

[justyn20003]

I got to say, No creeping.
If you do what this one dude did when I was dating his friend you WILL get ya ass whooped.
Don't stare at them kissing, don't stalk. and just be a normal dude

[n00b1n8R]

You liked her for years and never made a move? That's your own fault. Suck it up and move on.
Nobody's just going to magically "notice" you one day if they've known you for years and you're kidding kidding yourself if you think they will. Stop being so passive and actually take what you want.

[Psychichobo]

HOLY COW ON A COWSTICK IT'S NOOB1N8R


Sorry, had to get that out of my system.