What Grinds your Gears?

[Helonion]

Jun 11, 2011 0:38:20 GMT umbra said:

GG: So I got to know this girl for a little while, and as I've never been in any kind of relationship, I really had no clue what to expect. First I must say that this girl, or more like woman, is 4 years older than me, and well even with the minimum amount of experiance with relationships, I knew that this was not going to be a normal relationship. So we were together for about 1 1/2 months, and in that time we have already done it and had a stupid amount of drama to deal with, and then she basically disappears. She stops seeing me, ignores my texts, and even unfriends me on facebook (of which I only got because of her). So this goes on for about 5 months, in which I text her about 2 times a week to try and get a response. So about a 1 month ago she finally responds. Now, you can hardly imagine how excited I was to finally get a response from her. So I ask her if she wants to get together tomorrow, and she says sure. The next day I try and text her to see when I should pick her up. No response. Eventually, she texts back and apologises that she can't do anything today, and we set up another time to meet. This happens about 5 or six times, all in which we are supposed to meet, but she blows it off. Finally I'm doing her a favor. This isn't a date, a get together, or even time to hang out. I'm just giving her a ride to the doctor's for an appointment. Well guess what? She blows me off again! Like seriously, this was a favor that you wanted, and one that involved me driving for about 5 hours, and still she blows me off. Now, even I know that this is her using and abusing me, but as the kind person that I am I give her the benefit of the doubt. I hope to finally see her again next week so I can finally find out what the (please do not swear) is going on. And that is what really grinds my gears.

Ignore her, she blew you off too many times. I don't care if you are a nice person, she went ghost on you a long time and keeps blowing you off. Kick her out of your life. Its not your problems. I know its hard to not be nice and care, but you need to be a douche right now and forget about her complete. Ghost her back.

[umbra]

Yeah I know that that is the right thing to do Helonion, but it just isn't in me to do that, especially since she was my first. I'm going to try and figure this stuff out and get her point of view, but if it just stays the same way that it is now, I know that I will have to do exactly as you said.

[killercroc]

Dump her, straight and simple. If she is being like this then you should cut her off, no one should act like this, whatever the reason. Its not being a bad girlfriend, it is being a bad person.

[Psychichobo]

Yeah, sorry Umbra, but I have to agree with Hel and the Croc - there's some seriously confusing messages here and it's not really worth pursuing someone who's going out of their way to avoid you.
Seriously dude, leave it.

[umbra]

Yeah, helonion and I have been talking about this a bit more and I know that it's best to just let it go, but it won't be the easiest thing for me to do. But still it must be done. If anyone wants to hear the whole story, or at least most of it, just PM me.

[Helonion]

GG: I didn't really know the guy but, classmate died a few hours ago. Cancer. He was almsot 22

[umbra]

wow that really sucks. What a shame, cancer at 22.

[Helonion]

Jun 14, 2011 18:53:43 GMT umbra said:

wow that really sucks. What a shame, cancer at 22.

At least he knew what it was like to be married.

[mina]

GG: Trying to pick a college... and get scholarships

[umbra]

Dang, but still it isn't fair. Why should his parents go through the pain of living longer then their son, and why should his recently widowed wife now have to live without him? it just doesn't seem right.

[Helonion]

Jun 14, 2011 19:04:28 GMT umbra said:

Dang, but still it isn't fair. Why should his parents go through the pain of living longer then their son, and why should his recently widowed wife now have to live without him? it just doesn't seem right.

Its just how it is sometimes.

[umbra]

yes, such is life. Tis' neither fair nor just, yet we must live it everyday.

[Geneva]

GG: Gave away my Scatter Die to a new player today thinking that I had a spare one at home. I didn't.

[GestationPool]

Just picked up some paint at the local shop. Even though they price most of their stuff fairly well (I.E. better than GW), I must wonder if Citadel puts gold leaf in all their paints... My wallet looks like it has just been the victim of a large bomb sqig...

[Psychichobo]

GG: My memory's really hit and miss at the moment. Some things just never seem to click until it's too late. Not good when driving, for one...