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Post by wisdomseyes1 on Feb 24, 2011 4:32:22 GMT
I looked on you-tube. I wanted to see how many videos of really close minded people there are. What is weird was that I expected to find hundreds of thousands of videos on how gay people should die and that they will go to hell, blah blah blah.
I couldn't find any...
Ever single video I found was a sarcastic comedy on how dumb people are.
So, i continued just to go onto any video with the topic having the words gay/(please do not swear) on the title. Still... nothing.
Here is what i found interesting though. Although there are no videos on this topic, "fags must die" and "God hates gays" comes up in every single video...
I actually learned a lot about the Christian belief system though my search. My favorite video being a clip from west wing entitled "Thing Homosexuality is wrong?"
Anyway, back onto my rant. Why do people hate us? I ask you my peers who I talk to about warhammer every day. It seems so... weird. What does it matter who i like... And why can't people believe that for most of us, it isn't something we chose. That, just like straight guys look at guys and have never seen more than friends, that the same can be said about us, but with girls. Why is that so fing hard to believe?
And I wonder something. Do these people just go onto these videos to say this (please do not swear)? One of the 10 commandments is to not kill... yet in almost all "rules" that the bible have in them... it is to put people to death. If a woman wears cloths made of more than one type of thread, she should be burned in a small family gathering. You are unclean if you touch the skin of a dead pig. Well, there goes football doesn't it? And slavery is morally right, where homosexuality is not. How does that work?
Now you may be thinking, "Well you can't just take quotes from the bible and think that they should still apply in todays society"... what do you think Leviticus 18.22. is? You are pulling a specific passage out of the bible and justifying something you don't understand.
People ask why one has to be so open about their sexuality. My grandma in particular says she doesn't know why they have to be out there all the time. I LAUGH SO FREAKING HARD!!! If she says, "Your grandpa and i don't go flaunting that we are straight"... then just think about what she just said. She not only openly said she was straight, but she admitted to having a relationship at least once in her life. If gay people do it, they are flaunting it, where as if straight people do it, it is considered "normal"
Which brings me to my next point... The words we use for describing gays vs straight are radically different. Where we talk about relationships for straight people, we talk about sex for gay people... where we say straight people have lives, gay people have lifestyles. Straight people have a moral vision and gay people have an agenda. So much is wrong with the way that it is said... so very much. The words you use change the meaning.
All people think gay relationships are is sex. It annoys me. How, save our gentiles, is a gay relationship different than a straight one? Past what people think because of peers telling gay jokes (which are 99.999% of the time about sex) what is different between liking a guy and liking a girl?
It is unnatural maybe? Animals aren't gay. it must be unnatural.
1) If we start getting out moral standards from animals... we have bigger things to worry about. 2) Animals DO in fact have homosexual relations. It is not common... but neither is gay in humans now is it?
Homosexuality causes AIDS? No... a virus does... you get it from straight *and* gay relationships... and sometimes, from interactions that are not sexual at all!
So I ask you. What is wrong with being gay? I have seen so many comments on things related at all to homosexuality, and i honestly want to know what makes the hate of us... comments?
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Post by salamut2202 on Feb 24, 2011 5:09:53 GMT
I am for gay marriage, against 'don't ask don't tell' and am in complete support for the homosexual community, although I'm straight myself. The reason people don't like gays is rather simple: the main stream thought until recently has rubbed up against the Judao-Christian religious culture. What should that matter?
Not Bible bashing but that's why the hate. You said it yourself. This quote is repeated again and again and again.
I do find those who identify themselves as homosexual a little dumb - if you want to be accepted and for it not to be a big deal than don't make a big deal out of it. Other than that I have no problem with a couple of the same gender kissing in public as much as I have with heterosexual partners doing so. There is a big difference between flaunting it and saying you're gay. I've had a guy ask me out, he certainly didn't flaunt it. I have a friend who casually refers to her girlfriend as any other person would refer to their partner, that isn't flaunting it. There are people, however, who DO make a huge fuss about the fact they are homosexual stopping just before the point of them proclaiming themselves with every step down the street (This doesn't not refer to the Sydney Mardi Gras which is party/raising awareness).
I haven't encountered the division you describe between the descriptions between gays and straights, although i don't doubt they exist. Though I guess the idea that gays have sex with everything could be an example of that is something that would nullify what I said. When guys are in a room and, not being accustomed to homosexuals, realize a gay is there too there are instant 'don't drop your wallet' jokes. It should be said that that gay is very much lie them except that they like other men, do straight guys root every chick when she bends over? (well yes but that's called rαpe, which I guess is another distinction made by people)
Animals have shown signs of homosexuality in the wild. It appears to be a trait spread throught many species of placental mammals. I know a dog that is an alpha male and doesn't root other dogs for domination, It has had every opportunity to be with a not of biτches and has not shown interest in any of them. And the dog rooting is actual rooting, not just dominating behavior. There have been cases of dolphins showing similar behavior, lions, chimpanzees. It isn't unnatural at all (and if it is, god is also outside of nature in which i could only conclude to Evangelical fundamentalists that homosexuality shares a trait with gos thus god is a hypocrite).
Nothing is wrong with being gay. If someone tells you it's a choice look them in the eye and tell them "Why would I choose a life which society dictates is wrong and I will be ridiculed for?"
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Post by killercroc on Feb 24, 2011 5:14:57 GMT
There is nothing wrong with being gay, and if anyone says something different you should punch them in the face, kick them in the junk, and say you just got the (please do not swear) beat out of you by a queer.
<3
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Post by Loplod on Feb 24, 2011 5:42:33 GMT
I'm just like.. Not even going to respond to the general topic at hand thing. Its just this I actually learned a lot about the Christian belief system though my search. My favorite video being a clip from west wing entitled "Thing Homosexuality is wrong?" That, Now sure you may have gotten a bit of ideas and facts and things. But people on youtube are not theologists or priests or pastors. They are your average Joe who has his own opinions. So I'm just going to say that you can't take everything they say and think it is the view of A) All Christians and B) The religion itself. While you may have gotten some nice facts and things. the validity may or not be correct, You probably already took this into account but I am just saying. Also, I dislike the idea of this thread. You have an opinion GREAT, but keep it to yourself. there are two general opinions on the matter. One is "I'm all for homosexuality/I don't care about it" and the other is "I don't like them" I mean this is really just ASKING for an argument. Should I start a thread about how my religion is better than all others and everyone should join my religion because there's is bad? NOPE. By all means say it in your posts if its on topic but I think a thread is way to far and serves little purpose but to attract the wrong kind of attention, And quiet frankly thats what it seems to be.. Just attention seeking. We found out in a previous thread that you hate your life and it sucks and you can't deal with it, So could you possibly be writing stuff all over the internet to gain the attention you crave from your lifestyle? In the nicest way I am just going to say please mature up mate, You are an alright guy and I like having you around.. But this is just getting a little out of control for my tastes.
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Post by The Tomato on Feb 24, 2011 10:03:46 GMT
A. Since its basically good bussiness. If your country/religion/company/whatever is in trouble its often easier to put the blame on some minority than where it belongs (i.e on your self)
For example, say that your countrys soil is packed with diamonds, as the countrys leader you ofcourse keep them all for yourself and force your people to live and die in poverty.
Now, when the people is pissed of and stand outside your pallace and demand a share of the riches or your head its ever so simple to say things like "Some other countries took it", "This is all caused by drugged up children" or the old favourite"The homosexuals did it"
B. How is this related to anything?
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Post by logic79 on Feb 24, 2011 12:44:47 GMT
I have 2 pet peeves about my sexuality.
1) People (mostly young men) using the word gay to mean something negative/wrong/bad or unpleasant
2) People (mostly gay men) referring to gay men using female terminology. Nothing makes me want to repeatedly punch someone in the head and then kick their skull in once they are on the floor as "Ooh get her!" or calling me a female dog.
I want ask though, what on earth possessed you to want to look up hate films on you tube? Why do that to yourself? Is this for college work?
I have to kind of agree with Leopold in asking why you posted this on the Hive. I have posted about gay issues on forums before, but it was about how I felt the hobby was quite Homophobic. It didn't go well. I know that we regularly have people posting about their private lives asking for help and advice. I remember guys asking for advice on getting a date, what to do on the date and even one guy looking for help dealing with being dumped. So I can see why you wouldn't have thought there was any reason not to post, I just question what you wanted to achieve?
Having said that, I like to think of myself as a fair minded person who likes to see both sides before making an opinion. So I want to ask what is the point of the guys who come on here and rant about people complaining about our codex... what are they expecting to achieve?
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Post by wisdomseyes1 on Feb 24, 2011 21:57:19 GMT
If I did that I would be doing exactly what most people do about homosexuals.
Yes. Because this is a site where opinions are frowned upon.
What?
This opinion obviously comes from not actually reading the original post, which your very first statement suggested you didn't...
Not entirely sure how this topic is immature? And in my last thread, no where did I say I hated my life. I needed someone to talk to... but had no one. Kind of sad how 2 people can read the same thing and get completely different things out of them.
I wanted to see all of the dumb people ranting about how we should die. I find it funny how illogical their arguments are and how narrow-minded they are. Only once could i actually find one what isn't pro gay. And, that in turn made a lot of people talk about how the posters of the videos (most of whome aren't gay btw) are going to burn.
The question was why people go onto these videos just to leave hateful comments and why people think that gay people are evil save the bible. I am currious. But, as Loplod has pointed out... I guess that is wrong isn't it?
How is the thread "Joy"... where you just post what makes you happy? Or how about "I caught the zombie plegg" where someone was sick and just had to tell everyone... ?
On another note, there was a topic recently on religion on the hive. No one seemed to complain about that.
*Added: In case you didn't know, fashion industries, farming, football are all against the bible. Also, Slavery is morally right, which, if you read my post, you would have known.
I wonder, why are people picketing gay marriage and not football. Nor fashion companies. Nor common farming techniques. I wanted to have an actual conversation on that... but for some reason no one seems to want to answer that question. You know, the point of the thread...
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Post by The Tomato on Feb 24, 2011 22:20:14 GMT
Hey, easy. Nobody is attacking you, the post just seemed pretty random, thats all.
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Post by Hellbreaker on Feb 24, 2011 22:22:28 GMT
*Added: In case you didn't know, fashion industries, farming, football are all against the bible. Also, Slavery is morally right, which, if you read my post, you would have known. I wonder, why are people picketing gay marriage and not football. Nor fashion companies. Nor common farming techniques. I wanted to have an actual conversation on that... but for some reason no one seems to want to answer that question. You know, the point of the thread... These things generally have an impact on most people's lives, unlike gay couples. hence why no one is bothering that much with these things.
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Post by Tyrantor on Feb 24, 2011 22:40:31 GMT
Aw for (please do not swear) sake.
I'm all for someone having their own opinions and sexuality and whatnot. But, you know what it's called your opinion? Because it's yours. Let it be.
All things said, you went onto a Website to see the hate you'd get for being gay? So you wanted to find hate? I don't care what sexuality you are, that's messed up.
I won't lie, I hate seeing 2 gay people kissing in public. Know what else I hate? 2 straight people having a tongue war in public.
Being gay doesn't make you any different from anyone else. I think, for some godly unknown reason, you somehow enjoy the attention you get from being different. But that's just what I do - I figure people out.
I mean, seriously, I don't go about seeing if anyone hates Scottish people. If someone does, will I care? (please do not swear) no. I am what I am and if someone doesn't like what I am then they can smoke my pole for all I care.
Really, Wisdom, we all know you're gay. And we're all okay with it. But posting a massive topic which all started because you actively went looking for hate is just BEGGING for someone to tear your rant down from the offset.
Loplod beat me to it. Pretty much everything he said was totally bang on. I am not known for sugarcoating my words.
That being said, one of my best friends was homophobic simply because his dad is and it was drilled into his head from a young age. He's fine now, accepts everyone for being everyone.
But, alas, I'm ranting. I couldn't care what sexuality you are. And I don't mean that in the harsh way. I mean it in the sense that you could be a self-convinced dragon-lover for all I care, because I talk to you for the sake of a good chat, not because of anything to do with sexuality.
Still though, if you're looking up hate on the internet (the hate machine), why? Why even bother?
I disagree with this thread, not the idea of sexuality. People can do what they want, I don't judge someone for being different. Anyone who does should get to (please do not swear). End of.
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Post by wisdomseyes1 on Feb 24, 2011 22:47:28 GMT
I am confused... I could care less if you respond or not. @#!*% , you can trash me all you want for "attention craving"... though again that isn't the topic... but okay.
And... that is kind of one of the main points in my rant...
So what i say is untrue because I looked for it? I don't understand that logic...
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Post by Tyrantor on Feb 24, 2011 23:01:36 GMT
I am confused... I could care less if you respond or not. @#!*% , you can trash me all you want for "attention craving"... though again that isn't the topic... but okay. If you actually read my full post you'll see I'm far from "trashing" you. Stop taking everything as a personal attack. Seriously. Who said anything about it being untrue? What kind of logic are you using? Read the post thoroughly. But I will say this, I can't stand it when someone constantly flaunts their sexuality - be it gay or straight. But fine; I'll answer your questions: 1) Most of the time any kind of football is made of a synthetic material (here anyway) and the term "pigskin" is just like lead in a pencil. There's no lead, it's graphite. Yeah? 2) Slavery is wrong. End of. In all fairness though, I couldn't care about the Bible. It's a book. And whatever my opinion on that book is, it's still just a book. The local priest of my hometown before I moved into halls was very supportive of gays. Not that I am christian, but either way, you're still "God's child". You're listening to the loud minority. Know why the silent majority is silent? Because someone's sexuality doesn't make a difference to them. It's this majority you should start paying attention to. Edited for grammar.
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Post by wisdomseyes1 on Feb 24, 2011 23:07:55 GMT
I can almost grantee you have heard this statemnet in real life if that is your opinion.
Also... i don't think MY preference matters in the post... just as it shouldn't matter. My only question was why people even cared, which you say you don't... but you also say I shouldn't ask.
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Post by Tyrantor on Feb 24, 2011 23:10:48 GMT
I don't say you shouldn't ask. I say if you go on the internet looking for hate, you will find hate. Simple. People are hating spiteful confusing overly-emotional irrationalising idiots incapable of removing their own head from their arses to consider that maybe indifference isn't such a bad thing.
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Post by wisdomseyes1 on Feb 24, 2011 23:17:24 GMT
I am not sure how this turned into a conversation about me... contrary to popular belief, that is not what i was intending to happen...
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