So i really like this girl

[Geneva]

Oct 30, 2010 16:29:18 GMT wormwood said:

I know this may seem a little harsh and codescending, but please consider it rationally.

I''ve almost never seen a teen romance lead to a lasting relationship. People grow apart as they adjust to the responsibilities of adulthood, and leave their old highschool cliques behind.. Eventually most highschool sweethearts end up resenting each other for not being who they once were or not growing up, and they go their seperate ways. Don't plan on finding "The One" until you're a little older, and you've begun to determine who you are outside of your current context.

The ups and downs of teen dating are a drag, but it's really just practice for the real deal.

This, crushing or not, is quoted for truthiness. You've got roughly eighty years of life to you. If you think you've found a "one" in the first quarter of that, which coincidentally is your least matured and experienced, imagine how many you'll find in the long run.

There'll be plenty of "ones" but only one "The One". You'll learn to tell the difference as you get older.

[commandersasha]

^thirded. Have fun, young man, and don't put too much pressure on yourself.
Don't make any silly mistakes, don't break any hearts, and most of all, don't lose a good friend by trying to put a different nametag on your friendship.
You're in a band with this girl! Awesome! Play gigs, get drunk, get lost on the European leg of the tour and end up hitching back to Paris for the next gig! Write a song together about how so many people ruin their relationships by trying to conform to a media-driven framework of what a "Relationship" should be like.
Another few years, she & you will still be there, and if it's meant to be, it will be.
Upset her parents, on the other hand, and you'll force her into choosing between them & you. Shakespeare wrote a play about how that sort of thing turns out. "Zombiedalmations, Zombiedalmations,Wherefore art thou Zombiedalmations?"