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Post by Helonion on Sept 10, 2010 1:25:42 GMT
I actively avoid it almost like some feminist lesbian nazi (please do not swear) woman. Trolololol. I also agree with your mum that 13 is a tad young for having a boyfriend. But I would never slap you. Why do people slap other people? It seems very old fashioned. He wasn't like a serious boyfriend- he was just the boy who held my hand and gave me daffodils from the school field. It was awkward and silly, but my Gran thought it was cute at least, lol. (he's gay now) ... Alice....what did you do XD |
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Post by Julio on Sept 10, 2010 1:28:00 GMT
She turned a man gay.
You are going to the lake of fire now, Alice. Trollolol!
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Post by Alice on Sept 10, 2010 1:38:05 GMT
Lol! Apparently I did! XD Oops!
Although he DID have a few other girlfriends after me. He was a popular guy lol.
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Post by Julio on Sept 10, 2010 1:50:16 GMT
"This is girl? (please do not swear) this." "Helllllooooo men  " EDIT: I did not actually swear, I used f and stars, just so you know. I dun like to swear. |
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Post by Father Nurgle on Sept 10, 2010 2:31:35 GMT
ew! cooties! i remember when i was young and cooties were a major problem!  ahhh, them good ole days. i dont know what about the word (kiss) but i dont like saying it or typing it. it makes me feel awkward. but! i have kissed a girl. it was wonderful. bah! just typing it makes me wanna take it back. and i don't know why. hm. other than my young self ranting, be cool and calm, like ice. and the quality of the kiss doesn't matter if the two love each other enough. its just the symbol of love. |
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Post by Julio on Sept 10, 2010 2:45:46 GMT
You find it uncomfortable saying Kiss?
HOW DO YOU LIVE WITHOUT KISS
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Post by Captain Malachi on Sept 10, 2010 2:56:48 GMT
You're like 12 right? I haven't really been paying attention but that's the impression I'm getting, so it's really simple: Place lips to girls cheek, remove lips from girls cheek, blush profusely and run away. Be a kid while you can dammit!
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Post by Alice on Sept 10, 2010 9:37:01 GMT
You find it uncomfortable saying Kiss? HOW DO YOU LIVE WITHOUT KISS Doesn't he ever rock and roll all night? And party every day?!?! Lol my boyfriend reminded me of a few years ago when we first started dating- I'd been dumped by my previous boyfriend the week before, and I'd phoned him up crying because, as his best friend, I thought he would be the best one to know WHY he dumped me. He invited me to come meet him in town for coffee, and we did. It consisted of him sitting opposite me while I bawwed into my coffee, so he invited me to come out again to make me feel better lol. We ended up sat on a couch in Varsity (a bar) and I ranted, because I had moved from upset, to confused, to angry because I was upset and confused. I also drank MANY glasses of wine. At the point where I was all red-faced and snotty, with streaks of mascara down my face, he suddenly came close to go and kiss me, and I remember thinking 'whyyy??? What's happening? What- oh no he's going to kiss me- OMG he's actually going to do it, what? Why? What are my options? How do I make it stop?' But since then we've been together 3 years. But still, our first kiss wasn't so great XD |
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Post by Helonion on Sept 10, 2010 11:03:15 GMT
You find it uncomfortable saying Kiss? HOW DO YOU LIVE WITHOUT KISS Doesn't he ever rock and roll all night? And party every day?!?! Lol my boyfriend reminded me of a few years ago when we first started dating- I'd been dumped by my previous boyfriend the week before, and I'd phoned him up crying because, as his best friend, I thought he would be the best one to know WHY he dumped me. He invited me to come meet him in town for coffee, and we did. It consisted of him sitting opposite me while I bawwed into my coffee, so he invited me to come out again to make me feel better lol. We ended up sat on a couch in Varsity (a bar) and I ranted, because I had moved from upset, to confused, to angry because I was upset and confused. I also drank MANY glasses of wine. At the point where I was all red-faced and snotty, with streaks of mascara down my face, he suddenly came close to go and kiss me, and I remember thinking 'whyyy??? What's happening? What- oh no he's going to kiss me- OMG he's actually going to do it, what? Why? What are my options? How do I make it stop?' But since then we've been together 3 years. But still, our first kiss wasn't so great XD Sounds like you were going to slap him XD I'm curious on how you let him and it grew into your current relationship. he drugged the coffee didn't he! Seriously, why do we ignore the Helonions advice, its good advice! |
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Post by Alice on Sept 10, 2010 11:23:29 GMT
Doesn't he ever rock and roll all night? And party every day?!?! Lol my boyfriend reminded me of a few years ago when we first started dating- I'd been dumped by my previous boyfriend the week before, and I'd phoned him up crying because, as his best friend, I thought he would be the best one to know WHY he dumped me. He invited me to come meet him in town for coffee, and we did. It consisted of him sitting opposite me while I bawwed into my coffee, so he invited me to come out again to make me feel better lol. We ended up sat on a couch in Varsity (a bar) and I ranted, because I had moved from upset, to confused, to angry because I was upset and confused. I also drank MANY glasses of wine. At the point where I was all red-faced and snotty, with streaks of mascara down my face, he suddenly came close to go and kiss me, and I remember thinking 'whyyy??? What's happening? What- oh no he's going to kiss me- OMG he's actually going to do it, what? Why? What are my options? How do I make it stop?' But since then we've been together 3 years. But still, our first kiss wasn't so great XD Sounds like you were going to slap him XD I'm curious on how you let him and it grew into your current relationship. he drugged the coffee didn't he! Seriously, why do we ignore the Helonions advice, its good advice! I sort of let him and I sort of didn't- I didn't close my eyes or anything, and half way through I just started laughing and said 'what are we doing?!' and he looked away and said 'sorry'. The next day he texted me saying he was really sorry, and he didn't know what he was thinking, and he repects me and wasn't trying to take advantageblah blah blah blah blah and I thought about it, and figured 'well, I've known him a few years and he seems like a nice guy etc. etc.' and replied that I didn't mind, and would still like to hang out. I ended up hanging out at his house a few afternoons and we just did friend stuff like play video games and make pizza. We were like best friends for quite a while. Then one week we went back to varsity and I kissed him on purpose, and he laughed, and then said 'um, will you go out with me?', and then I laughed at him because I hadn't heard it phrased like that since primary school  |
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Post by Helonion on Sept 10, 2010 11:41:48 GMT
Sounds like you were going to slap him XD I'm curious on how you let him and it grew into your current relationship. he drugged the coffee didn't he! Seriously, why do we ignore the Helonions advice, its good advice! I sort of let him and I sort of didn't- I didn't close my eyes or anything, and half way through I just started laughing and said 'what are we doing?!' and he looked away and said 'sorry'. The next day he texted me saying he was really sorry, and he didn't know what he was thinking, and he repects me and wasn't trying to take advantageblah blah blah blah blah and I thought about it, and figured 'well, I've known him a few years and he seems like a nice guy etc. etc.' and replied that I didn't mind, and would still like to hang out. I ended up hanging out at his house a few afternoons and we just did friend stuff like play video games and make pizza. We were like best friends for quite a while. Then one week we went back to varsity and I kissed him on purpose, and he laughed, and then said 'um, will you go out with me?', and then I laughed at him because I hadn't heard it phrased like that since primary school And a bonus of knowing that being the nice guy in the friend zone can work out for the guy! Oh, wait we had to explain the friend zone to you XD. Seriously, we need more girls like you willing to date the nice guy friend. |
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Post by mina on Sept 10, 2010 12:01:46 GMT
Hel, I can't imagine it will make you feel any better, but I can't imagine ever dating anyone I wasn't really good friends with first. (Having never dated that should be very uncomforting.)
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Post by Alice on Sept 10, 2010 12:50:43 GMT
^THANK YOU JAKA!
I was trying to explain to these guys for ages that the 'freindzone' think is a load of rubbish. Most girls I know would actually PREFER to make friends before they date a guy. I just can't understand where they all seem to have gotten this idea that a girl just can't date somebody she's friends with.
I've said it before and I'll say it again: If she turns you down because she 'just want to be friends', she's plain and simple not into you that way. It's not BECAUSE you're friends that she doesn't want to go out with you. She just doesn't fancy you.
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Post by killercroc on Sept 10, 2010 20:53:48 GMT
^Friend zone... a mans worst enemy. Not really, I know plenty of people who started out as friends and then started dating, that's what I did. Makes a relationship better, since you already know the person and what they like to do and vise verse.
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Post by fastkangaroo on Sept 10, 2010 21:19:41 GMT
Exactly there's no real such thing as the friend zone in our minds, things will still take time so getting to know each other as friends first is a great way to start a relationship.
Im probably not a gd example lo, as me n my boyfriend got together really quicky and spontanious lo
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ahhh, them good ole days. i dont know what about the word (kiss) but i dont like saying it or typing it. it makes me feel awkward. but! i have kissed a girl. it was wonderful. bah! just typing it makes me wanna take it back. and i don't know why. hm. 
